Adjusting from high school to university was more challenging than I expected, especially entering a rigorous and competitive major that the school is well known for. I had to learn how to cope with failure, take mistakes in stride, and grow from each experience. What helped me most was the friendships I built during my freshman year. Not only did I make new connections that supported me through tough times, but I also deepened friendships from previous academic years. Having that strong network made the transition easier and reminded me that success is not just about academics, it is not about the people who uplift you along the way.
At the same time, being a female minority in engineering presented unique challenges. The field remains male-dominated, which sometimes meant dealing with implicit biases, self-doubt, or the pressure to constantly prove my abilities. There were moments of isolation, particularly in classrooms or study groups where I felt like the odd one out. However, these obstacles made finding strong friendships even more important. Connecting with peers who shared similar experiences became a source of encouragement and validation. Whether it was bonding over late-night problem sets, leaning on mentors, or joining student organizations that advocate for women in STEM, these relationships reinforced my confidence and determination. Having a support system made navigating the challenges of my major more manageable, reminding me that I was not alone and that representation in the field is growing with each passing year.
Having a strong support system of friends has made adjusting to college life so much easier for me. My friends understand the challenges of a rigorous major, which helps me deal with setbacks and stay motivated. Whether we are studying together, venting about tough classes, enjoying social life, or just taking a break to relax, their support makes the transition feel less overwhelming. Plus, keeping strong connections from previous academic years gives me a sense of stability and reassurance. College is tough, but having a solid group of friends makes it easier to push through and grow.
In college, I realize that not everyone I meet is a true friend, and that is okay. Some people are just classmates or study partners, while others become real friends who support me. It is important to recognize who is genuinely there for me and who is only around when it is convenient. Friendships require trust, effort, and mutual respect, and not everyone I meet will offer that. Learning to separate acquaintances from true friends has helped me protect my time and energy. Now, I focus on building meaningful connections with people who uplift me and make my college experience more fulfilling.
As a freshman, I know how important it is to build connections with my peers and make the most of them. Creating study groups early on has helped me tackle coursework while also forming a strong support system. Joining clubs, student organizations, and attending campus events introduced me to people with shared interests and gave me opportunities to grow. Beyond academics, I have learned to check in on friends, collaborate, and be there for each other through challenges. Stepping out of my comfort zone and meeting different people has brought fresh perspectives and new experiences. College has its ups and downs, but having a solid group of friends makes everything easier. By staying open, engaged, and supportive, I have been able to build relationships that make my college experience even more rewarding.
Last modified: 03 May 2025