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Monday, July 14, 2008

helicopter tours

 

My uncle just passed away from Cancer. He was too young to die, but he did lead quite an adventurous life. He has flown a helicopter since he was in the service when he was just 18. After getting out of the service, he used his flying abilities to do some really neat things. For a long time, he flew people around the United States, and then he flew helicopter tours. After that, he was offered an incredible opportunity to fly internationally. He flew in the Arab countries and took the rich people to their oil wells in places like Abudabi and this gave him not only great wealth but an opportunity to tour the world. He traveled all over the place and as I was growing up, I never got to know him because he was always off in a foreign country, but he would send the most incredible gifts from all over the world. As a child I received Indonesian jacks, beautiful lace material from Singapore, a book of Aesop's Fables from somewhere, Moroccos and real Spanish dancing dolls from Spain. I never realized how much these gifts meant to me as a child, but now in retrospect it was my only real connection with my uncle. He was the type of man who never really had kids of his own and really didn't relate to us real well, but I guess he must have thought a lot about us, because he was always sending us gifts or bringing us gifts, and so we must have ranked pretty high with him.

Actually, after years of not hearing from him, he did send me a letter at the very end of his life, and told me how proud he was of me and how sorry that he was that he hadn't contacted me in so many years. I guess being on your death bed changes your perspective on life a little. I really wish I had gotten to know him better during his lifetime, in the end I guess I felt like it was too little too late, hearing from him after quite frankly what was decades of silence. I guess some things can't be undone, but mostly I think that I have always felt bad for my mother, as he was her only family who was still alive, and quite honestly he didn't bother to contact her very much as well. I guess I wished for her sake that he would have put a little more effort into their relationship.